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Wednesday, 6 July 2011

Desperate housewife.....

I am a wife when I was still an undergrad student. Nikah, honeymoon kat Parit Buntar 2-3 hari (ikut hubby balik campus dia) then back to my campus. For 2 years jadi monthly wife. Sesekali balik rumah mak jd macam tetamu while kat rumah mother in law dah memang ada maid. Well, as a result....skill as a wife cuma kat dapur and bedroom je lar....hehehehehe...

After grad hamba jadi horseman, jangan kata nak buat keja rumah....anakpun asyik kena outsource. Pendek kata I'm not use to housework. Masa kat asrama jaga bilik and keperluan sendiri jer. Bila dah kerja semua maid yang uruskan, hamba ke dapur pun sebab minat. Sapu lantai, urus kain baju....waaaaa....I don't like...

Nak jadi cerita hari Sabtu lepas my new maid ran away. She left while me and hubby pg hantar maid lama kat airport. Terpaksa lar men"cuti"kan my sister in law to cover Monday and Tuesday. Semalam and today hamba plak terpaksa cuti. Mamat transporter yg bawak maid tu entah bila lar nak ganti maid hamba ni....Buat penat jer hari tu ke hulu ke hilir bunuh setem bagai. Kalau tak dapat maid hari ni, esok nak wat camna!!!??? Waaaaaaaaa...........

Satu hari jadi housewife semalam, hamba telah bertungkus lumus mengemas dan memBERSIHkan tinggalan-tinggalan maid lama. Apa yang nampak ok for me all this while rupanyer berkarat!!! First thing hamba potong rumput kat laman yang sekangkang kera tu....tengok2 longkang macam tak pernah dibersihkan....almost nak total clog with pasir n whatsoever. Kalau hamba tak tergerak nak bukak drain cover tu memang tak tau lar....

Siap kat laman, hamba pergi dapur. Duduk lama2 kat sink baru perasan yang the dry basin tu dah.....**@#$%%#. Jenuh pulak ngangkat drying rack yang sebenarnya full with crap...menda2 disposable pun letak situ. Selama ni tak nampak sebab covered with pinggan mangkuk. Masa awal2 maid kerja ada pesan, lap pinggan yg dah basuh....jgn tunggu dry kat basin tu. Lama2 tak larat bebel hamba redha jer janji rumah kemas.

Habis kat dapur lepas lunch...tu pun rasa nak pengsan dah. Tengahari hamba membetulkan langsir roman blind yang dah entah apa2 jadinya dikerjakan dek bibik, yang kat  dapur xboleh roll up n down..berbelit2 dah....Sekian lar pulak nak memanjat. Badan dah lar berat...takut roboh jer cabinet. Adeh...penat gilos....tu tak termasuk sapu sampah and mop lantai lagi. With the boys at home, lagi ler semak....ada jer kerja nak kena buat...pastu makan macam tak sudah-sudah. Nasib boleh kerah diorang cuci pinggan.....

Abih kerja kat bawah baru jenguk kat atas. Gosok, lipat and susun kain baju ialah aktiviti yang sangat hamba tak suka. Dalam hati menjerit....cepat lar ganti maid hamba. Tapi bila dah lama2 lipat baju especially baju anak2 then rasa seronok plak. Rasa macam ada personal touch. Tengok baju sekolah diorang yang comot sana sini and lutut seluar dah nipis,  make me think of apa lar aktiviti yang diorang buat sampai cam ni. Terasa nak nangis....terasa I've miss a lot of thing. Yes, memang penat jadi housewife but I can feel the satisfaction walaupun baru sehari.....

Hamba membayangkan  betapa penatnya mak hamba ngurus rumah and anak2 dulu2....kain basuh tangan tu!!! Nasib lar rumah kecik and adik-beradik 3 orang jer. Fuhh...bayangkan housewife yang anak 8! Tabik lar to all housewife....especially kawan-kawan hamba yang belajar tinggi, kerja gaji sedap2 tapi berenti untuk jadi housewife.

As for me....full time housewife memang tak suit my profile but I want to get rid of this maid dependency syndrome.....soon...soon...

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